Frustration rising

I am slightly frustrated this morning. I have been searching for a group, or locations that update kids, and more specifically things that are associated in the least with Toddleedoo kids. But there really is not anything.
There are massive amounts of designers groups I could join.
There is only one Midnight Madness group for Toddleedoo kids, but I would rather not join that one. If there was another, I might.
There is a Toddleedoo Spam with 73 members, but that is designers. oO
There is baby.newz but again that is for designers.
I only see one group specifically for Toddleedoo boys.
Oh I did find a Toddleedoo chat group, I think I am going to join that, even if it is only like 30 members, that is a start. ~sigh~  I did join, but alas --- NO one is on!!
See my frustrations, I am looking for a group of updates on events, places where children gather, things to do WITH other kids.

That is the other issue I have been noticing in my travels.  My momma goes crazy with how much I teleport around.
I see many children.. toddleedoo, zooby, regular kids, all kinds of kids alone.  Not playing with other kids, not interacting with other kids, but acting as mini adults.  In groups there is so much baby babble it is sometimes hard to keep reading that chat, and people claim to be friends, but it seems a majority are friends in group, and never get together to "play"
~sigh~